Thursday, November 25, 2004
hei another thanksgiving without me around you...am so sad with the thought that we are not together today...and sad that we don't get to talk as much as we want to the past few days.
i called your house today and just talked to your answering machine, i just greeted you a happy thanksgiving and wish u had a great day today...
i dont know what else to say...what else?
I love you, though lately i have been critical and sometimes skeptical bout you and youre being busy.
i wish youre here.
happy thanksgiving, i love you
love you,
dyanne
& our love goes round and round;
6:59 AM
Wednesday, November 17, 2004
pagod na ko...
pagod na kong mag-text,
pagod na kong mag-ipon ng mga text galing syo.
pagod na kong mag-antay ng text,
pagod na kong magbilang kung ilang araw ka ng wlang text.
pagod na ko...
pagod na kong isipin ka,
pagod na kong mag isip,
pagod na ko ng kaiisip kung naiisip mo rin ba ko.
pagod na ko...
pagod na kong gumising na mukha mong una kong naalala,
pagod na kong matulog na khit nakapikit kaw ang nakikita,
pagod na kong magkunwaring abala, para lang makalimutan ka.
pagod na ko...
pagod na kong ikwento ka,
pagod na kong pag-usapan ka,
pagod na kong ipagtanggol ka,
pagod na kong itago ka,
pagod na kong intindihin ka,
pagod na kong mangulit,
pagod na kong umiyak,
pagod na kong magpigil ng luha,
pagod na kong sabihin na ok lang ako,
pagod na kong umasa,
pagod na kong makiusap sa Kanya,
pagod na kong magmahal....
isang bagay lang siguro ang HINDING-HINDI ko ikakapagod...
HINDI ako mapapagod na mapagod ng dahil syo.
& our love goes round and round;
3:43 AM
Thursday, November 11, 2004
To make a woman happy; a man only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
17. a psychologist
18. a pest exterminator
19. a psychiatrist
20. a healer
20. a good listener
22. an organizer
23. a good father
24. very clean
25. sympathetic
26. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. Driver
45. Clean utensils after every meals
46. Gardener
47. Carry all bags & packets during Shopping spree
48. Always have surplus money
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
49. give her compliments regularly
50. love shopping
51. be honest
52. be very rich
53. not stress her out
54. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
55. give her lots of attention, but expect little
yourself
56. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
57. give her lots of space, never worrying about where
she goes
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
58. NEVER SAY NO
59. NEVER TO FORGET
* BIRTHDAYS
* ANNIVERSARIES
* APPRECIATION FOR ARRANGEMENT SHE MAKES
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HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY :
1 . Leave him in peace
2. Let him watch the basketball on TV
& our love goes round and round;
6:21 AM
Wednesday, November 10, 2004
What is more exciting and exhilarating than falling in
love? Is there anything?
Sadly, though, many of us have learned that it's just as
easy to fall out of love as it was to fall into it. And
while finding love and affection is one of our greatest
personal needs, why is it that so many fail to stay in
love?
Falling in love can be the start of a loving relationship,
but lasting relationships don't just happen; they grow. In
many ways nurturing a relationship is like tending a
garden. Neglect it and it dies. Constant care and
cultivation--including the following suggestions--are
needed to keep love alive and growing.
Love is being there. One of the chief ingredients of love
is to give another person your presence. Without presence,
as Dr. David Augsburger says, love receives an invitation
to die.
Presence is not only spending physical time with another
person but also giving him or her your undivided attention
when you are with them. It includes being sensitive to
his/her feelings and aware of his/her needs. It means not
only hearing with your ears but, much more so, hearing with
your heart.
For instance, recently I visited with a friend who spent
the entire time talking about his interests and concerns. I
tried to share some of my interests, too, but felt as if my
words fell on deaf ears. There was no experiencing of
mutual presence--the basis for all meaningful relationships
including friendships.
Love is understanding. Most behavior is caused or
motivated. Once we understand this, we can be much more
accepting and loving. For example, one father I know was
having difficulty with one of his two children. One was the
"perfect" child, the other constantly rebelling.
"Is one of your children a favorite?" I asked the father.
With a tinge of embarrassment he admitted the "good" child
was. "Do you think this could be the cause of your
difficult son's negative behavior?" I asked again. The
answer was obvious.
"Be very careful, then, how you live--not as unwise but as
wise.... Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to
debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit ... always
giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name
of our Lord Jesus Christ. Submit to one another out of
reverence for Christ" (Ephesians 5:15, 18, 20-21, niv).
In continuing our three-part series on "The Art of Staying
in Love" we need to understand that much negative behavior
in adults as well as children is caused by not feeling
adequately loved. This may have its roots in present
relationships or from unmet childhood needs. Either way,
when people are acting negatively or yelling, they are
hurting and, in a way, however clumsily, are yelling for
help. If we can see this and take the time to understand
the real cause behind their behavior instead of taking it
personally and yelling back, we can go a long way in
strengthening our love relationships. Admittedly, this
isn't easy but we do need to work at it.
Love is also accepting responsibility. Most of us bring the
excess baggage of unresolved issues from the past into our
close relationships. For example, the man who didn't get
along with his mother and is still angry at her will
inevitably take out his hostility on his wife and family.
Or the woman who felt mistreated by her father or some
other significant male and is distrustful of men will take
out her hurt and anger on her husband, and so on.
If we desire to stay and grow in love, it is imperative
that each of us accepts responsibility for resolving our
inner conflicts that cause dissension in our present
relationships. We were not responsible for our upbringing
but we are now totally responsible for what we do about
resolving any negative effects our past had on us.
Love is more than sex. Love is much more than a physical
relationship. It is also an emotional relationship. The man
who ignores the emotional needs of his wife and expects to
receive a warm response in bed is inviting frustration.
Women are not machines to be turned on at will. Sex starts
in the kitchen at six, not in the bedroom at nine, ten, or
eleven--or even later. A long-lasting physical relationship
is the result of an ongoing healthy, long-lasting emotional
relationship.
On the other hand, the wife who no longer shows any
interest in her husband's life outside the home feels
totally shocked when she discovers that one of the younger
women at the office has. Many men (and women too) who get
involved in extra-marital activity, don't do it so much for
sexual reasons but for companionship--someone who will
listen to them and make them feel important and
appreciated.
& our love goes round and round;
2:30 AM
If one day you feel like crying....
call me
I don't promise that I can make you laugh but I can cry with you
If one day you want to run away...
Don't be afraid to call me
I don't promise to ask you to stay,
But I can run with you
If one day you don't want to listen to anybody,
Call me...
I promise to be very quiet
But,
If one day you call and there's no answer...
Come fast to see me,
Perhaps I need you
& our love goes round and round;
2:02 AM
Tuesday, November 09, 2004
me again, sorry havent texted you....ran out of load but i wanna thank you for all the text msgs you have been sending me...u don't know how it means to me that you are there and rmembering me.
iam ok now, back at work despite being sick and all, have to work and go on...am just afraid of my tests...have to get fbs exam since my sis and bro was postive with diabetes, am afraid iam too.but am hoping not.
anyways wish you are here and i just want to talk to you and hold your hand on this ranty day of my life.
am not blaming you while youre there and cant be with me....
iam just sad that we have to be apart during these days, but i know soon enough you will be here.
again, thanks, and know that you are in my thoughts and my mind,i love you
your dyanne
& our love goes round and round;
2:59 AM
Saturday, November 06, 2004
hi,
i know have been so mushy and sentimental last night, i was even out of reasons in understanding you, but just because i wanted you to be so excited as iam on our first year together.
but what i did not understand is, you worked the whole day...and you hardly had time to read any of my messages. it's not that you forgot, it's just you also have a life to live other than this.
iam not being sarcastic, but i frankly was hurt that you did not paid any attention to me right away...and maybe it's just me, human nature or my hormones, that iam such a cry baby and ranting all the way becoz..i felt...you're not not happy with us.
but i figure out, you're not that sentimental, and not romantic...and even so...i love you....i do love you
you gave me a call a while ago while im stuck in the hospital for this headache and fever that has been with me since 2 days ago...and you even sang happy anniversary....and was so worried that iam sick....for that...i forgive you...and i understand.
happy anniversary sweety...though we can't be together...and can't talk that long.....i know i love you
i love you more now.....than ever.
your,
dyanne
& our love goes round and round;
3:57 PM
Friday, November 05, 2004
i cannot believe it has been a year since we admitted that we love each other once again after a lot of pain and miscommunications, i wanted to be there beside you and hug you and tell you how happy iam to finally admit to you and admit to myself that i truly love you.
i remember that day, i had sleepless nights before that day and then i texted you and asked you if you meant what you said and meant well this time.
do u remember the first time you said u loved me? i was watching a movie then with my family and u texted me, "mahal kita"......i did not know what to say or react and i even texted you back that maybe you are just saying that...i was happy that you were telling that but i am afraid that maybe you're just saying that.
after that text and after u told me on the phone that you really loved me, i was really happy but at the same time, iam skeptical of things and of how u really feel.
but i wanted to say that i dearly love u too....only iam afraid that we wont be able to pull through...i mean with the distance and with all the things that we have been through, i dunno. i was so afraid the time you kinda drifted away on my life for months...you left and did not say why....
and august of last year...you called me up, after months of not texting, emailing, calling you suddenly resurfaced...i was a bit unsure if i should really talk to you but iam glad that i was hearing you from far end...but this time i was not expecting anything....
and then you said you loved me...2 months after....
i hope you know the joy you bring in my life.although you could not see the smile whenever you text me, or call me, i hope you noticed that iam thankful that you finally said you love me after 2 years of being friends....
i know ours is not a perfect relationship, and sometimes, its not pretty understood....but iam sure that whatever we have...and we are having, is true and it's one of the graetest things happening in my life.
ofcourse, this is just a letter...but i wanted you to know that november 5 of 2003, is a date i will not ever forget because i finally admitted that i do love you too.....
the distance is one of those problems but no matter, what....i just want you to know that been great being your friend, and your girlfriend, your love of your life.
i hope to see you soon, and just hug you and really thank you for being there during those days i needed you the most.
thank you for the great year we had....
thank you for bringing me one of the sweetest things....
you....
i love you sweety
& our love goes round and round;
1:12 AM
Thursday, November 04, 2004
Iam actually blogging about us,surprise!!!
I know that we can't talk always on the phone, or text once in a while...since we're too far away and sometimes too busy with work...I just wanna be able to express how I feel in another way such as this....
i love you,always and forever
& our love goes round and round;
3:01 AM
